Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage in Jain Samaj of India
Marriage
is when two hearts come closer to each other and a new relation that is formed
is known as marriage. To first love then marry or first
marry then love? The choice is yours and you both have to live life together. Marrying
is not just the union of two people but it is the union of two families.
However in India, parents focus on union of families according to religion,
caste and standard of living. Therefore 90% of Indian's Jain Samaj matrimony has
arranged marriages. But among Indian youth 'love marriage' hold more attraction
than 'arranged marriage'.
An arranged marriage is arranged by the
families of two people who are getting married.
A love marriage is arranged by partners
themselves with the consent of parents. If we talk about the love
marriages, if we see from the edge, love marriage seems to be perfect and
flawless. As both the partner choose each other for the future path. They both
know each other personally before marriage only. They have a different
understanding and support needed to live along forever. They know each other
personally which helps them to start a better new life. In love marriage we
choose the person which with we are emotionally and physically attracted.
Building the life with them would be happier.
But generally love marriages start with many
expectations as compared to arranged marriage' as they know each other and are
in love previously. But if after marriage a partner doesn't get expectable
love, here love marriage' starts to fail. And that's why love marriages are
said to be more unsuccessful matrimony in
India.
If we talk about the arranged marriages, here
partners don't know each other personally. Just 6-7 months meetings decide the
future partner of their life. Nobody knows what is the actual face of the
person who he is going to marry. Just matching the families and standards is
arranging marriage. But sometimes it gets very successful as a person tends to
have fewer expectations. Less expectation tends to have less disappointments
and results in successful marriage. In India there are very less families having
love marriages successful.
Jain
Matrimony is one of the fastest growing Jain
marriage bureaus in India for selecting desired candidate for marriage.
Here lakhs of Digambar, Shwetamber Jain brides and grooms can be searched with
their name, gotra, date of birth, location, profession or salary etc.
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