Does Caste Matter to find My Dream Life Partner?
When you find a profile of girl
for marriage, forget about what happened in college life. When you talk to any
prospective girl, be calm and try to communicate with her. Ask her questions
about her likes, dislikes, future goals, dreams, hobbies, fears, etc. Try to
understand the qualities that she wants in her husband, so that you can make
sure whether you can marry her or not.
Mine was an arranged marriage and
I belong to a Jain community. Whenever I met my fiance(husband now) before
marriage, I used to do 70% of the talking, because he doesn't speak that much. I
already asked his likes, dislikes, future goals, dreams, hobbies, fears, etc.
From that day I understand that my husband is unique in the qualities and he is
the man I was looking for many years.
Nowadays, it is observed that
many parents are allowing their son/daughter to choose their life partner from
different Castes and communities. According to many parents if my son or
daughter is happy and have satisfaction in their life, it is a great
achievement for them. Caste doesn’t matter to them. The matter is they want a
suitable life partner for their kids. Obviously, if you are Jain, you will have
many proposals from your own community, but if your son/daughter can have
better option in other community, parents have no issues.
In modern times, many girls and
boys from all communities are working in MNC’s and they think, their life
partner should have a better job, he/she should be well educated and can
understand the feelings. The co-workers become their top priority, as they
understand them very well. At that time, the caste, community didn’t matter for
them. Many of them go for arranged marriages, and in case if their families
oppose for that marriage, they opt for a love marriage.
Many singles like the life
partner, who never boasted about his work/achievements. He is an in-demand
employee in his workplace. He is kind, communicative, and attractive and his
colleagues/bosses praise him a lot (in his absence, of course). He is very
helpful towards his friends. My advice to prospective brides would be to find a
life partner who possesses all these qualities that I have mentioned in the
above paragraph.
Jainmatrimony.asia has helped the lakhs of brides and grooms of
Jain community to find their better half. It has come up as leading Jain matrimony in India.
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