Love Marriage VS Arranged Marriage
Marriage is a relation in which two
hearts come closer to each other and a new relation that is formed is known as
marriage. It is the most beautiful bond which demands love and respect for each
other. It is a beautiful bond where two
souls get connected in a scared bond. Now days, young couples prefer love
marriages. However, society does not accept love marriages easily.
LOVE MARRIAGE:
In the last few years, Indian society
has gone under various changes and as a result girls are treated equal to boys.
Interaction between Jain girls and boys has contributed towards more of love
marriages. Earlier, love marriages were not preferred by parents as love
marriages would be either caste or religion difference. But now parents are thoughtful
of their children’s feelings. The advantage of love marriage is boy or girl
chooses his/her life partner. They are free from the restrictions of caste,
social status, physical appearance and even religion. Now-a-days, Jain girls andJain boys believe that love is the basis for the partners to be together in the
relationship. Generally, the boy and the girl are acquainted with each other
for a considerable period of time. In their relation, there is pre-existing
comfort level and trust. The couples are well-aware of each other’s likes and
dislikes which help them in a better setting up of a happy household.
ARRANGED MARRIAGE:
In India, arranged marriages are a
tradition where parents decide the life partner of their son or daughter. They
decide according to the cultural background, social status, physical
appearance, income and even on the amount of dowry. Arranged marriages are
still preferred by the elders to enter into matrimony. As according to the elders,
certain things are necessary to see before marriage. Arranged marriages are
long drawn out process where finalizing the perfect match may take months. The
suitability of a perfect match involves religion, caste, culture, horoscope
matching, etc.
Now the question that arises in every
youth’s mind is Arranges or Love marriage? Love is pre-existing but that does
not mean that it will continue for long. Each one of them has to nurture the
love. While in arranging marriages the involvement of parents is high. The
decision of marriage should be taken carefully.
Jainmatrimony.asia also
has marked its presence in the online market and has become the best choice for
Jain matrimony in
India.
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